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Iona Harmony

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Queer Catfish

If I think about it, I’ve been online ‘dating’ since the early 2000s. I met my first boyfriend by exchanging an ‘A/S/L?’ in an AOL chat room, had a drama filled crush on a stereotypical guitar playing guy I met on FaceParty, and my sex life throughout

Top Ten First Date Ideas

I don't know about you, but fuck me, I am SO bored of 'let's grab a couple of drinks' dates. I mean, I get it. It's not too daunting, it's an easy way to get to know someone and there's the opportunity to get tipsy enough to banish any nerves

What To Do When Your Date Drops A Bombshell

Content warning : I chat about mental health and suicide - hopefully helping people feel more at ease about talking to someone when they need help, and what to do if the person they talk to is you. Another day, another match. This time with Fijian photographer, ‘James’. We messaged for

Breaking my Tinder Virginity

Due to the high volume of hilarious dates I seem to have had, I often get asked what my most ridiculous one has been. And there’s never any hesitation in which story I choose to tell. Grab yourself a cuppa (or a rum and coke may be more apt)

A Dating Column With A Difference

31-year-old single woman seeks a man who is more than just a bearded, puppy holding, guitar playing, ‘easy going guy’. Or a woman who doesn’t have a Snapchat filter permanently attached to their face. Hi, I’m Iona and when it comes to dating - I’ve just about